How will the pursuit of your persuasion priority impact your happiness and satisfaction?
First, it’s important to realize that happiness and satisfaction are two separate and distinct notions. In short, happiness is based on conditions; satisfaction is based on reflection.
Happiness is the short-term elevation of mood, typically influenced by conditions. Is what you’re doing at the moment fun, are the people you’re interacting with enjoyable to be around and is the work environment convivial? Or do time pressures exist with micro-managing bosses nagging you in a work environment that feels awkward or even toxic?
Satisfaction is the longer-term, overall feeling of contentedness. Have you achieved significant accomplishments, overcome stiff challenges or reached your potential in a certain area? When you reflect on your life, how fulfilled are you? Do you look at your life and career with pride, or do you regret opportunities lost and potential not realized?
Three Key Questions
If you are seeking to be a persuasive professional, you simply need to ask yourself these three questions:
- What will the pursuit of my persuasion priority contribute to my happiness?
- How many more happy moments will I experience in the average day as a result of this endeavor?
- When I look back several years from now, will the pursuit of this persuasion priority contribute to my overall professional and personal satisfaction?
Keep in mind that delayed gratification and eschewing fleeting moments of happiness for longer-term satisfaction can yield much more significant results.